Your best option is to use a recycler who is part of the "e-Steward" network; they don't export to developing nations, and they follow other high standards. Many also will reuse and refurbish equipment.
You haven’t said much lately. What’s been going on?
I haven’t felt like talking. I don’t have very much to say.
You always have something to say. What’s wrong?
I guess I’ve just been sitting in stunned silence. You know: BP’s spewing gusher a mile under the surface.
Oh for heaven’s sake! You need to get a life.
Like I said: stunned silence.